š 5 Signs Youāre Absorbing Other Peopleās Energy (and How to Stop)
- Nov 30
- 2 min read
Protect Your Peace, Stay Grounded, and Keep Your Vibe Yours

Energy Isnāt Just Physical ā Itās Emotional
Ever walk into a room and instantly feel tense, even though no oneās said a word? Or finish a convo and suddenly feel tired, even though you were fine before?
Thatās energy absorptionĀ ā when your emotional field picks up what others put down. And if you donāt know how to manage it, your energy starts feeling like everyone elseās.
But the good news? You can train yourself to stay balanced, even in emotionally heavy spaces.
1ļøā£ You Feel Emotionally Drained After Interactions
If hanging out leaves you feeling exhausted, even when nothing dramatic happens, youāre probably carrying emotions that arenāt yours.
Energetic empathy is beautiful ā until it turns into overload.
š” Tip: Visualize a soft glowĀ around you before social settings. It helps your brain and body set an invisible boundary.
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2ļøā£ Your Mood Changes to Match the Room
If your emotions fluctuate wildly based on who youāre around ā excited with some, drained with others ā your empathy might be on overdrive.
Itās okay to care deeply, but you donāt need to carry othersā emotions to show compassion.
š® Practice: Say silently, āI see their energy, but I release it.ā
3ļøā£ You Absorb Online Energy Too
Yep ā itās not just face-to-face. Negative posts, arguments, or sad stories can subtly lower your frequency.
Limit your āemotional scroll time.ā Replace doom-scrolling with light content or creative inspiration.
š§ Check Pozeeās Energy PlaylistĀ for mood-boosting tracks that lift your frequency back up.
4ļøā£ You Struggle to Say No (Even When Youāre Overwhelmed)
People who absorb energy often overcommit ā emotionally or socially. You want to help everyone, but your bandwidth has limits.
Boundaries arenāt walls ā theyāre filters. They let in what nourishes you and keep out what depletes you.
šŖ· Pozee tip:Ā Use a daily grounding ritualĀ ā journal, stretch, or meditate for 5 minutes before replying to new requests or DMs.
5ļøā£ You Feel Responsible for Other Peopleās Happiness
Empaths often feel like they need to fix everyoneās problems ā but thatās a fast track to burnout.
Your responsibility ends where your peace begins. You can love people deeply without losing yourself.
š« Repeat this affirmation:
āTheir emotions are not my burden. My calm is my contribution.ā

šø How to Reclaim Your Energy
ā Create quiet time after social events.
ā Burn a Pozee candle or play your favorite song to reset your vibe.
ā Visualize returning othersā energy to them with love.
ā Prioritize solo joy ā nature walks, journaling, or just silence.
š¬ CTA: Whatās Your Energy Boundary Hack?
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š Sources
Psychology Today. (2024). āAre You Absorbing Other Peopleās Energy?ā
MindBodyGreen. (2023). āEmpaths and Energy: Why You Feel Drained Around Certain People.ā
Harvard Health. (2023). āHow Emotions Are Contagious.ā




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